Relationships, Dating, and Sex: A Guy's Perspective



Match.com - View Photos of Singles FreeWelcome to the relationships and dating portion of my blog!.

Here, I opine about all things between men and women. These opinions may resonate with you (especially if you are a guy) or be a cause of reasonable disagreement and debate.

I will simply bring to you what I am thinking about relationships, dating, and sex, lay it all out there, and let you be the judge.

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Richard

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Jul 08 2010

The 27 Year Old Virgin Man

virgin manI just accidentally stumbled upon a story of the 27 year old virgin man.

I noticed that a post that I had written about the sexual consent form was getting a lot of hits from a certain webpage and I decided to check it out.  The webpage was titled “I’m got tired of waiting until marriage so I started having sex at age 27.”

Obviously, one would assume, given the title of the page, that this was written by a girl.  But it wasn’t…a guy wrote it.

My first thought was really?   You exist?  The 40 Year Old Virgin was a movie my friend, not a call to action or a challenge of any kind. Continue Reading »

2 responses so far

Feb 19 2010

Tiger Woods Press Conference: What Will He Say?

Since the Tiger Woods affair began over Thanksgiving three months ago, we have heard from nearly everyone except Tiger Woods.  Today, he speaks. (Watch the Tiger Woods Conference live here at 11am Eastern Time).

Many people simply want to see him.  With all the speculation that his face was badly damaged in the November incident, people want to see if he still looks the same.  There was the photo below that was circulating in everybody’s inbox for the last couple of months.

picture of tiger's face

Will he look like that?  Obviously not. Continue Reading »

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Sep 30 2008

Girls and Cars

Published by Richard under Relatonships/Sex

I saw an average looking woman driving a Porsche the other day.  The Porsche was incredible, but the woman driving it remained average.

If the situation was reversed, and I were a woman looking at a man driving a Porsche, the car would remain incredible, but the man driving it might also become better looking. Continue Reading »

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Sep 25 2008

I Wish I Was Divorced

Published by Richard under Relatonships/Sex

online dating after divorceI really hope that my wife does not read this!  But, as I see my friends getting divorced, they seem so happy.  They have their kids, their guy friends, lots of girlfriends, and the sympathy of the world.  After the initial pain of the divorce, they invariably say:  “This divorce thing is great.  I wish I had thought of it sooner.” Continue Reading »

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Sep 13 2008

The Saturday Morning Cup of Coffee, the Internet, and RooshV?

Published by Richard under My A-Musings, Relatonships/Sex

Ah, that fresh cup of java on a Saturday morning.

Paul Simon just came on the stereo with his “50 Ways To Leave Your Lover.”  Does he really mention 50?  I don’t have time to check.  But if you’re really bored, and don’t want to read What To Do On the Internet When I’m Bored, you can listen to Paul Simon’s 50 ways and read lyrics at the same time.  When you’re done, let us know whether there are really 50.

Speaking of numbered lists, Continue Reading »

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Sep 04 2008

Who Is Better at Sex: Younger Women or Older Women?

Published by Richard under Relatonships/Sex

Better in Bed:  Younger Women Versus Older Women

better at sex? young or old womenTake this one question quiz and then put your reasons in the comments section below.  Everyone is interested in your opinion. 

Are younger women or older women better in bed? 

Guys, who would you rather be with…a younger woman or an older woman?  Ladies, are you better now at 30 than you were at 18?  Continue Reading »

19 responses so far

Aug 09 2008

Online Dating: Get Lovin’ While Looking for Love

Published by Richard under Relatonships/Sex

On a recent visit to San Francisco, I learned that a large number of guys do Match.com to get dates.  These are not guys you would consider pathetic or lame but guys who could get dates in the real world.  However, they get even more dates on Match.com and the rewards are rather…instantaneous. Continue Reading »

7 responses so far

Jul 24 2008

Money Versus Beauty

Published by Richard under My A-Musings, Relatonships/Sex

women and moneyMy friends told me of a particular New York Craigslist post the other night that I had not seen.   In the post, a “spectacularly beautiful” woman requests a man who earns greater than $500,000 a year.  A man responds to her that her beauty is a “depreciating asset” while his money will continue to grow.  His response garnered much attention.

I searched the Internet to find this post and bring it those of you who have not seen it.  Without further ado, I bring you the spectacularly beautiful women who wants a rich man and the man who views her, at best, as someone to date in the short term.   You can read my thoughts below. Continue Reading »

4 responses so far

Jul 23 2008

Dimitri Phone Message

Published by Richard under My A-Musings, Relatonships/Sex

I had a friend at work who, in his pursuit of someone, was rather persistent.  People would somewhat jokingly refer to him as a stalker.  He would say, “I prefer to call it dedication.”

 Well, meet Dimitri.  Dimitri could even teach my friend a thing or two.  If you have not yet seen Dimitri on youtube, you have not yet seen what true dedication is all about  :) Continue Reading »

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Jul 22 2008

Why Is My Boyfriend Acting the Way He Is

Published by Richard under Relatonships/Sex

how to make him love youMany girlfriends ask the following question:  Why Is My Boyfriend Acting the Way He Is?

As a guy, I can certainly see why women would ask that question.  We men can often be found wondering Why Is My Girlfriend Acting the Way She Is?

But as a guy, I would like to shed some light on the question that many of you are asking.  So, without further ado, here are five things to consider when you wonder:

Why Is My Boyfriend Acting the Way He Is? Continue Reading »

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